From gay country-western bars to gay rodeos, queer cowboy culture is here to stay.
I had never see so many cowboy hats , in so many colors . Under the neon glow of the outdoor leg , hundreds of makeshift cowboys and cowgirls were two - stepping across the dance storey at Austin’sCheer Up Charlies , where a listening company forBeyoncé’sCowboy Carterhad transformed the pansy bar into an androgynous honky - tonk — bolo railroad tie , boots , and Levi ’s denim for day . My husband and I force down toAustinfrom Oklahoma City for a cowboy - themed weekend , drop anchor by theCowboy Carterparty at one of my favorite bars . I wore a bedazzled singlet with cowherd boots , a bolo , and a black cowherd chapeau , and for the first time while wear such an ensemble , I feel myself . By the time host Natalie Mother Lepore take the level to kick off the rodeo with “ YA YA , ” the crowd sang along with thunderous precision , despite the record album dropping simple minute ago . And truly , you have n’t lived until you ’ve heard “ TEXAS HOLD ‘ EM ” at a gay bar in Texas .
While being a Texas bar , Cheer Up Charlies had never felt particularlyTexasto me in the past tense , but rather a queer distraction from the Republican - led Capitol Building down the street . Nowadays , though , it — and so many others in Texas and beyond — is freely bosom its roots , obstreperously and proudly .
mirthful cowboy bars , and gay cowpoke civilization , are nothing new . Gay people are everywhere , and do everything . Gay people have been cowboys since long before Orville Peck . It ’s the conservative white doorkeeper who have hold get to the tale heteronormative , clutching their drop overBrokeback Mountain , wipe off Lil Nas X from country charts , and — most recently — misplace their collective psyche over the fact that one of the greatest living artists of our time ( Queen Bey ) dared to tinker with banjos . Now , the noise is too loud for even the staunchest gatekeepers to deafen , vagabond overdue lightness on gay cowboy acculturation , and the rural area - western bars where it converges .
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In addition to Cheer Up Charlies , Cowboy Carterhas brought the country - theme boogie across the state , with party in Beyoncé’shometown of Houston , acountry - prompt fashion collectionat the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston , and afull - blow Beyoncé rodeoon Nashville ’s Lower Broadway . The Isaac Merrit Singer , of course , is not queer . But her rally cry assist complain launch the gates on a aspect of cowboy finish long shut up .
After a fire necessitated a temporary move in 1989 while the pub was being rebuilt , The Round - Up has only contract big and gayer , leaning into the rodeo rider motif with the addition of more bar areas , each with honkier and tonkier names , like The Tool Shed Bar ( a tin - roofed daytime space bedecked with stigmatization irons and chaps ) , The Corral patio bar , and The Horse Shoe Bar ( a heart - action station overlooking the main dance base , where scantily clad cowboys dance under the Texas flag and Lone Star beer signs ) . A big part of that growth , according to Miller , is the widening of mirthful bars from niche oases to more inclusive spaces for large demographics . “ It ’s fun to go to gay bars and be able-bodied to dance with anybody , it does n’t matter what your preference is , ” he order , describing the clientele now as far more divers . “ The gay biotic community has interchange so much in the last 30 - 40 years , open up and widening up , and everybody has a serious time . ”
Gay cattleman bar are more inclusive , and declare oneself more of a something - for - everyone vibration , than stereotyped homophile night club that inhabit some gayborhoods . At The Round - Up , that includes a game room with billiards and TVs for sports , the parlor for karaoke , and daytime hr for more leisurely interaction beyond the clamorous dancing base . It also utter to the overall ethos of what a cheery land westerly baris . According to The Round - Up ’s internet site , the key is “ to appeal to a much broader and more varied consultation than just the one segment of country music . ” This stand for playing country music seven nights a week , with diverse playlists that include slower classics alongside newer bops . The Round - Up , too , host its ownCowboy Carterrelease political party , citing the Brobdingnagian difference the album made in diversifying their clientele even further . “ It ’s a whole novel audience for country bar , the Beyoncé crowd alone , ” says Miller . “ And everybody need to hear that song , and do that saltation . ”
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Country bars are n’t the only places where gaycowboy cultureis experiencing a rebirth , though . After originating in the ‘ 70 in Reno as a manner to get up monetary resource for fourth-year citizens on Thanksgiving and debunk heteronormative stereotype , gay rodeo has gone on to pervert masculine tropes all over the country .
Mary Arbuckle , the executive director of Oklahoma’sGreat Plains Rodeo Association , has been part of the Gay Rodeo since the ‘ 80s , ab initio as a Jacob’s ladder partner with an HIV / AIDS organization called Other Options , before competing herself in ’ 91 . She go on to become Miss OGRA ( Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ) , and eventually , a world champion . For her , it ’s the sense of biotic community and camp that specialize gay rodeos from their neat opposite number , and it ’s what keeps her occupied and encouraged .
“ We do the same events as full-strength rodeo , but we require to make it so that everyone can connect in the rodeo , ” enounce Arbuckle of the intentional lack of gatekeeping at gay rodeo . “ You do n’t have to have a sawhorse to compete , or be a rough stock rider . We need to make it where everyone can join in the rodeo . ” Described as “ camp events , ” gay rodeos , which are held annually in cities from San Francisco to Oklahoma City , showcase godless competitions that do n’t take themselves too seriously , like steer decorating ( tying medallion on wind ’ tooshie ) , goat dressing ( put underclothes on goats ) , and wild drag ( exactly what it sound like : drag queen mounting wind ) .
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Gay cowboy culture is root in residential district and inclusivity . Since its inception , gay rodeos — and their kindred gay cowboy bars — have raised money for partner charities , and serve as beacons for peculiar people and ally likewise . “ I wish young generations would find out that rodeo is not just being on a horse , it ’s coming together as a category , ” says Arbuckle , observe the unnumberable way of life for citizenry to get involved , from competing to volunteering and helping with steers . “ It can still be competitive , but we want more hoi polloi to amount and see what we ’re about , so we can continue this legacy . ”
In addition to rodeo events , Arbuckle and the Great Plains Rodeo Association visit gay bar in Oklahoma to occupy with the community and make connections . “ That ’s how we endeavor to introduce people to our rodeo , ” she tell . “ All class long , they go out and talk about the rodeo and go to Pride parade , and show window who they are . Straight rodeo do n’t go out and do things like that . ”
That good sense of welcome camaraderie is what keeps jolly cowboy bars as kickin ’ as gay rodeos . From theBadlands Saloonin Las Vegas andThe County Linein Oklahoma City toFlaming Saddlesin New York City andRainbow Cattle Co.in Guerneville , California , these are spaces designed to be fun , campy , and communal , where patrons can where whatever cowhand attire they want without veneration of ridicule . Newer , splashier names have open up the gates even further , but pioneers like The Round - Up and the Great Plains Rodeo Association pave the way and persevere .
And anexperienceis exactly what gay cowboy culture is . It ’s putting undies on a goat , it ’s dressing up as Orville Peck for Halloween , it ’s making Canadian tuxedos look sexy , it ’s two - stepping to “ TEXAS HOLD ‘ EM . ” jovial cowboy culture is nothing raw , but as evidenced by the thundery puncher - clad crowds at Cheer Up Charlies and the pull queens wrangling steers , it ’s never been louder or prouder .
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