With a supporting role in the new A24 horror movie ‘Men’ and an appearance at the recent Met Gala, the British actor’s star ascends.

Paapa Essiedu would rather not plough on his Zoom camera . " Just because my room is a entire good deal properly now , " he says , referring to the Manhattan hotel where he is staying while in town from his aboriginal London . " I ’m kind of quite freshly witting . " It ’s 11 am . The night before , he attended his first Met Gala , wear anavy - blue velvet suitdesigned by the late fashion wunderkind Virgil Abloh . Michaela Coel , his drama - school friend andI May demolish Youcollaborator , had warned him how " weird " the starry fundraiser can feel in the flesh , but there ’s no way to prepare yourself to show up someplace and light upon you ’re induct at the same table as Kim Kardashian , Pete Davidson , and storied celebrity lensman Annie Leibovitz .

" Kim and Pete are obviously expert at this , so they arrived very fashionably late , quite deep into the dinner , " Essiedu says . " But yeah , they seemed like good guys and they both wait amazing . Kim was wearing an originalMarilyn Monroe piecethat she ’d been training to tally into for the last three weeks , so I was happy for her . "

Essiedu did n’t attract as many flashgun as the Kardashian crew , but the fact that he made Anna Wintour and party ’s hyper - curated guest list is telling : The 31 - year - old thespian seems balance for a major breakthrough , appear in this calendar month ’s horror fableMen , direct by acclaimed mind - twister Alex Garland ( Ex Machina , Annihilation , FX’sDevs ) and released by the trendy indie studio A24 . His main crony at the Met Gala , Harris Dickinson and Paul Mescal , recognise that on - the - leaflet sensation well . I May destruct You , in which Essiedu roleplay a gay fitness instructor named Kwame whose easygoing aura splinter after he is attack during a Grindr hookup , aired on HBO and BBC One in summer 2020 , when the pre - vaccine pandemic was raging . Essiedu ’s star rose enough to earn him an Emmy nominating address the following twelvemonth , but only now is he start to glean the like career wages .

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" When the show follow out , the industry was , for all design and purposes , shut down , " he recalls . " No one was making work . It was maybe August or July , and I was doing a lot of Zooms with producer , execs , casting director — people who are involved in putting undertaking together being like , ' Hey , we ca n’t do anything , but we can talk . ' "

Early in 2021 , Garland sent him the handwriting forMen—“one of those top - secluded one " that " spontaneously combust " as soon as you finish reading the PDF . The conductor had see some of Essiedu ’s stage oeuvre , which sweep multiple Shakespeare production ( King Lear , Romeo and Juliet , Hamlet ) and the cerebral David Hare playRacing Demon , and pegged him as the emotionally barren hubby to Jessie Buckley ’s admirer , Harper , an even - keeled urbanite who retreats to the English countryside for a solo diversion at an estate managed by a disconcertingly smiley innkeeper ( Rory Kinnear ) . harpist is reeling because Essiedu ’s James , seen only in flashback , threatened to kill himself after she quest a divorcement , unjustly saddle her with province for his actions . James tells Harper the only thing he require is her love ; if she can no longer give it to him , what hair-raising turn of events look her ?

Essiedu ’s role is n’t Brobdingnagian — the movie ’s narrative thrust concerns the various men Harper encounters during her stay , most of whom are toy by an increasingly demented Kinnear — but it demand literal and figurative nudeness . His scenes are fragment of one prospicient , volatile argument , the spoilt daylight in Harper and James ' family relationship . Buckley and Essiedu spent two weeks rehearsing together , which included inscrutable word about the pair ’s chronicle . The final time we see him , duringMen ’s flakey final act , he is nude , cover in goo ( you ’ll see why ) made from a concoction of crushed bananas , honey , and red dye that take on close to six hours to practice .

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Such exhaustive prep is familiar territory , both psychologically and physically . ForI May Destroy You , Essiedu and Coel worked with pioneer amour coordinator Ita O’Brien to choreograph every movement in the rape scene that would shatter Kwame ’s slaphappy self - sensing . Coel had initially designed Kwame to be more flamboyant , but after casting Essiedu , she receive a unlike slant on him .

" The fictional character was not necessarily larger - than - life , but larger than the Kwame he lay out to me , " Coel says via electronic mail . " Both Kwames be , but see Paapa ’s variety of botch up any other whimsy I had of the character out of the water . He had a subdued confidence , his mask of security measures and assurance much more convincing than the Kwames I had spell . I preferred his . Kwame ’s sudden adjacency to what we commonly perceive as heterosexual - presenting gave me hope that perhaps directly - identifying Black serviceman might more well empathize with his character . What to do when the person you conceptualise as other looking at and acts just like you ? "

ForMen , " we talked about how they adjoin and how they fell in dearest , " he order of his time with Buckley , another fresh genius thanks toThe Lost DaughterandFargo . " We spoke a lot about relationship and what it ’s like when you are crusade for them or when you stop fighting for them and why you stop fighting for them — and specially what happens when you find yourself in the place of despair . you may find yourself flailing , like a Pisces the Fishes in a bucketful , strain to do anything to protect yourself , protect your kinship . "

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Many of these dynamic Essiedu had to find for himself as an adult : His mother elevate him alone while his father , who go bad when Essiedu was 14 , stay in Ghana , where both of them were born . At their home in Walthamstow , England , his mum spoke multiple Ghanian accent in addition to English , which Essiedu credits for his appreciation for language . Even though he " hated " Shakespeare as a untested scholarly person and thought he ’d become a Doctor of the Church because he really like the sitcomScrubs , he now realizes that his mother indirectly instilled in him a worldliness that he hopes to translate to his acting work . The sang-froid with which he carry himself — a reserved but endearing composure — complements the intense characters he tends to impersonate , as also insure in AMC’sGangs of Londonand the miniseriesAnne Boleyn .

Essiedu ’s mother died of cancer when he was in college , shortly before he land his first television persona in the British seriesUtopia . Like many parents , she was hesitating when he recount her he would go to drama school instead of medical schoolhouse . But now Essiedu — who is go out actress and comic Rosa Robson — is an Emmy candidate and a budding A - lister plough . Days after he walked the Met Gala cherry carpet , it wasannouncedthat he is join the plaster cast ofThe Outrun , a Saoirse Ronan - headlined adaptation of Amy Liptrot ’s bestselling memoir about a Scots hedonist who returns to the far - flung sheep farm where she raise up . Essiedu will also appear in the Mia Goth vehicleSweet Dreamsand a1930s murder mystery opposite Colin Firth .

" She was always like , ' Whatever you do , as long as you do it by rights , as long as you fully commit to it and you put your all into it and you determine a path to make it important in a more spherical sense , ' she ’d be majestic , " he say of his mother . " I mean she ’d be really proud because it ’s not just about doing shows for the award . It ’s about doing work that resonates with citizenry and serve citizenry read and inspires mass to make change in their life . That ’s what it ’s about . That ’s what makes it meaningful . And I think that ’s what she would be proud of . "

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Photo by Cole Saladino for Thrillist. Grooming by Stanley Bordeaux. Styling by Audra Gooch.

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Photo by Cole Saladino for Thrillist. Grooming by Stanley Bordeaux. Styling by Audra Gooch.