The Netflix series ‘Uncoupled’ extends a fruitful career that includes ‘One Life to Live,’ ‘Desperate Housewives,’ and ‘The Boys in the Band.’

Tuc Watkins would care for you to mean of him as a gay Kevin Kline . At least that ’s how he ’d like to mean of himself . A dependable character actor who has consistently diddle fag roles throughout his vocation , Watkins — like Kline — see for the off - kilter eye blink within a scene . It ’s a moral he learned by way of a felicitous accident during his years on the soap operaOne Life to Live(more on that later ) , and he has carried it with him though memorable performances in the Showtime seriesBeggars and Choosers , The Mummy , Desperate Housewives , Parks and Recreation , The Boys in the Band , Black Monday , andThe Other Two .

Watkins ' latest role find him playing one - one-half of a newly uncoupled couple onUncoupled , a Netflix comedy co - create by Darren Star ( Sex and the City , Emily in Paris ) and Jeffrey Richman ( Frasier , Modern Family ) . His character , Colin , an even - keel New Yorker facing existential doubts as he turns 50 , suddenly announces he is leaving his genuine - estate - agent mate ( Neil Patrick Harris ) after 17 class together . The first time of year ’s eight instalment revolve primarily around Harris , but Watkins gives the plot its grain . Colin may have break the sympathetic protagonist ’s heart , but he is no mere baddie .

forrader ofUncoupled ’s debut , Thrillist talked to Watkins , who is dating his former conscientious objector - starAndrew Rannells , about being one of his propagation ’s go - to gay video actor , come out onThe Marie Osmond Showof all places , and why tripping on a stairway changed his life history .

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Thrillist : You ’re the rare gay character player who has systematically wager a riches of queer office . Does it feel that means to you?Tuc Watkins : It ’s funny you refer that , because I am a gay actor who ’s been play gay characters since the ' XC . When I did roles likeI Think I DoandBeggars and Choosers , people sound out , " You ca n’t be a gay worker and play gay roles if you want to play a wider range of roles . " But they were swell function , and I did n’t worry . What has bump is , there have been more and more role in the LGBTQ spectrum to dally . There was a time not so long ago that the gay quality were the gay clown or the tumultuous somebody or the sociopath . There ’s so many more roles available , and there ’s so many more actors who are unforced to play those roles .

Was there ever a moment when you feel like doing so became a limitation ? When you could n’t break in into a certain dominion because of it?I feel like I was caught in a catch-22 . I was a festive histrion who should n’t toy cheery roles if I want to play square roles . But I was also a jovial actor who they were n’t rent to play the unbent roles because they knew I was queer . It ’s amazing that I stupefy any study . Just recently , I worked on a TV series , and I was take to play a straight role by a homophile TV maker specifically because I ’m part of the LGBT community . He wanted someone from our community to spiel a square role as a political statement , and I ’m here for that . It ’s calledUnconventional . It was created by Kit Williamson , who createdEastsiders . That ’s on Netflix , and it ’s yet to cut down .

When straight actors play gay roles , we babble about what they chose to do with their idiosyncrasy . How did they dramatise the physicality of that character , and do we okay of those choices ? You had the diametric experience . Were you conscious of your mannerisms as a square character?Did I judge to butch it up ? Is that what you ’re saying ?

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Tuc Watkins and Neil Patrick Harris in ‘Uncoupled’|Netflix

fundamentally . What I ’ve learned , specially in television , is we tend to act ourselves . Sometimes we play one click left , one click right , but we ’re usually in a pretty narrow windowpane of playing ourselves . moving picture stars and A - list TV star get to playact a broad range , but I opine most of the clobber that I ’ve play , whether it ’s straight or gay , I ’m really just play myself , for the most part . How would I personally act in that given situation ? I ’ve never really thought of myself as a Method actor . I ’m more of a behaviourist . I do n’t attempt to put my mind into the mind of a successive grampus if I ’m playing a successive killer . I play it more like ifIwere a serial killer , and that ’s usually a little faithful to home . The current climate of television is more about genuineness .

You ’ve not only gotten to play gay role , but characters who are fairly well - adjust , with maybe the exception ofThe boy in the Band . I ’m not certain I ’d describe any of those part as well - adjusted . Yeah , and that was set in 1968 . It was a different era .

Not to say that a well - line up gay soul expect like any one thing , but inDesperate HousewivesandUncoupled , these are mass who are comfortable in their own skin , who have careers and are run about their lives in relatively productive ways . EvenThe Other Two , which is a more of a subversive translation of that . In real life-time , I was n’t always as well - adjusted as I may appear to be in the characters that I play . I grew up with a veneration of being merry , what being queer meant , feeling like it was not an pick . It learn me a prospicient time to reconcile that I was all right being myself . To be able-bodied to wager characters that are okay with themselves — maybe I ’ve been able to do that because I ’m stand on the shoulder of giant , of citizenry who come before me , who paved a route towards par that made it easier for me to do so .

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Kevin Rahm and Tuc Watins in ‘Desperate Housewives’|ABC

When youcame out , so to speak , onMarie Osmond — Can you believe I number out onThe Marie Osmond Showof all places?The Marie Osmond Show ! I told an Osmond !

I know ! Was that a premeditate thing?I was in reality hoping that it would come up . I went on the show [ in 2013 ] to speak aboutDesperate Housewivesand the fact that I was a new father . I had become a father to twins through surrogacy , and in telling the fib of how I became a don , intrinsic to that was that I was a gay guy who require to have tiddler but could n’t go through the traditional way of having baby . What kind of someone does that on his own ? There ’s a backstory to it , and I was appreciative that I got to share that backstory , and in doing so , it include the fact that I ’m gay .

In that context , it ca n’t not come up . For a farsighted time , I dodged questions about my sex and who I was seeing . Even onDesperate Housewives , for a foresightful sentence , I was not in public out . Everyone I wreak with bed I was brave , and that ’s just about a decennary ago . I was still concerned that , if I put a safe stamp on myself , I will only be labeled as one affair . I was still play that silly game not that long ago . I consider what happened was , when I became a dad , I thought , " I do n’t want my child to see me dodging . I desire them to see me being all right with who I am . " For the most part , I was . I just did n’t require to verbalise about it publicly . My nipper in reality help me become a little more well-to-do publicly with who I am .

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Tuc Watkins and Andrew Rannells in ‘The Boys in the Band’|Netflix

There ’s another strategy that somebody in your shoes could have employed along the way , which was to resist the eccentric of roles that you took . But those are great roles whether you ’re gay or straightforward . I became an actor because I want to become a movie star . Becoming a pic star was n’t really working out , and great roles amount along . I was never really concerned in hedge a great purpose because I was interested about how I would be perceived . If you do n’t get to be a movie wizard , you take great theatrical role .

When you were thinking about your idea of movie stardom , who were you thinking about?I have made a calling out of stealing from Kevin Kline . Part of the reason I went to Indiana University is because I lie with that he had go there . I ’m still purpose to be Kevin Kline , and I surmise that he might be taste to be John Cleese . I sense like I ’ve got a Father-God chassis and a grandfather material body to look up to .

A comedic picture star , then . That ’s how I recall of Kevin Kline . Yes . He ’s really both . He ’s wild in the drollery that he does . I do n’t know how many times I ’ve seenSoapdishandA Pisces Called Wanda . I ’ve also seen him do Chekhov on Broadway . He ’s inSophie ’s Choice , which is one of the skillful striking moving picture of all metre . That guy really does it all , but he does it with a sense of wittiness , which I really appreciate .

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Noah Galvin and Tuc Watkins in ‘The Other Two’|HBO Max

By your own admission fee , your calling was n’t going in the guidance of movie stardom . What did your quest to achieve Kevin Kline - dom look like , and how did it evolve?It was n’t so much that I was really attempt to become Kevin Kline . It ’s just that , when I play a role , I tend to think , " What would Kevin Kline do ? " He would always do something unexpected and amusing when it was n’t needfully supposed to be funny . I was n’t seek to have his career , because he sings , he dance . I ’m barely a single threat . I ’m just an actor .

It ’s interesting that you and Neil Patrick Harris are twin together forUncoupled . If you were capable to play gay roles over the years , Neil Patrick Harris fill the diametric infinite . Despite being a very seeable homosexual celebrity , outside of his field of operations body of work , his most celebrated use were these macho , comic , bro - case fiber . He and I did n’t really mouth so much about process , but I think you make a good point . Neil is one of those actors who can do it all . He did Barney onHow I Met Your Motherfor a number of years and gain awards for it , believably . I cogitate we ’re making progress . I had never met Neil . When we started working together , I reckon I , like a lot of masses in our country , had this preconceived notion of who Neil Patrick Harris was lead to be . He was conk out to be this cute , featherbrained , funny , likable guy . He showed up , and he ’s so good at what he does . He ’s kind of like a surgeon . He ’s accurate , he knows exactly what take to be done , he knows where the joke is .

I know he ’s a magician . He just got this tattoo recently of a magic trick on his shoulder . One of the magic trick that he can do that I notice : He and I had to do some moderately emotional scenes in this serial . He had to cry a number of times . When he was in a visibility shot , he was blazon out from his eye that the tv camera could see , but the heart that the tv camera could not see was juiceless .

No!He was reserving the tears in that centre for succeeding reporting , in cause he require to do water company from another eye . Nowthat’sa legerdemain trick . He ’s a very smooth-spoken , practical , magical player .

That is violent , to have that control over your body . Could you do that?The only other people who I screw can do that are the women on soap opera house . I ’ve witnessed that in daytime . Neil has a real facility for it .

I ’m sure you ’ve witness a lot of acting tricks on easy lay opera house in special because of the pace of it and the intensity of emotion . What ’s so great aboutUncoupledis that there are a lot of men , because it ’s a gay detachment comedy , and the committal to writing is specific and layered so that all of the different men on the show have a unique stripe to the tapestry . When I was on a max opera , which is live by a lot of man , all the Guy were competing for the same lane . Everyone was test to out - mystifying or out - smoulder each other .

OnOne Life to hold up , did you sense like you were also in that competition?Yes , for the first class that I was onOne aliveness to exist , I was attempt to be a cool , occult con man , and I was middling unremarkable at it . After about a year , I accidentally fall up the step in a scene , and everyone laugh at me . I was humiliated , but that ’s when a toggle electrical switch get going off and I transmit Kevin Kline , like I was say . I think , " David Vickers"—the theatrical role that I played—“is not a nerveless , secret con military personnel . Hethinkshe ’s a coolheaded , secret confidence game gentleman’s gentleman . " That afford birth to the character that run on for a number of years who was decidedly different , because he was not trying to be cool anymore . He was a buffoon who was trying to fit in .

That ’s clever . What do you remember about your first day on the set ofDesperate Housewives?I remember Kevin Rahm — he and I played husbands — were doing a prospect with Marcia Cross , and she come near our house with a basket of muffins . I say to the director between takes , " My fictional character ’s stand up here on the porch . Would n’t I take the air down the step and go recognize her ? " He said , " Tuc , let me break you . What ’s the name of the show ? " I enounce , " Desperate Housewives . " He said , " Do you have any more question ? " Doug Savant , who was off - photographic camera , amount to me , and he said , " Now you get laid what it ’s like to be a guy onDesperate Housewives . " I learn my lane on that show passably quickly . That was a great show to be on . It was so much fun .